I don't want to sell when I'm low vibe
“I don’t want to sell, post, go live when I’m low vibe”
I have a different perspective on this,
let it open up something for you
Usually“low vibe” = I don’t feel good or clear emotionally
The struggle is real because as a spiritual entrepreneur, you know energy is everything.
And, you’re a human being.
You go through stuff.
And you want a business that allows, moves with and supports your human life.
Here’s how most people will tell you to handle this:
There’s a camp of people who will say:
Take a look in the mirror and remember who TF you are, your emotions can be there and you keep moving.
There’s a camp of people who will say:
Take a step back, engage your coping tools and feel better. Do the things when you’re in the right vibe.
Totally valid + can absolutely work. AND I want to offer another perspective:
The disconnection is where the low vibe is.
Not the emotion.
Not the circumstance that brought up the emotion
Here’s what I mean...
Disconnection by going to all the coping strategies to get relief [aka, to stop feeling]
Disconnection by going to your head to fix the problem
[what do I need to say so that I can sell the thing]
Disconnection by getting into action about the things you think you need to do to sell the thing
[post, go live, send an email so you’ve done what your coach or the internet said you need to do to be successful]
Disconnection so you don’t transmit “bad vibes”
[ghost social media, do only what you have to do]
All of this is so well intentioned.
Here’s the thing:
You’re running a spiritual business.
Your people feel you. Or they don’t.
And that’s what makes the difference.
It’s not the actions you take. It’s not whether you feel good or not.
It’s whether you’re connected.
You can be connected when you’re pissed off, frustrated, guilty.
How many songs, movies, posts, lives, works of art have moved you?
Lots, right?
They moved you because the person creating them was connected to genuine emotion, to themselves.
This is an art. It requires practice + skillfulness.
No one can make the art you can when you are connected that’s the sweet spot.
There is no formula. It’s you.
When I’m connected to emotion, that’s when I reach people the most #facts
There are very real things that happen in business:
> You’re not selling as many spots in your new program as you wanted.
> You feel people aren’t getting the magic you’re here to offer.
> You looked at your bank account and it got you in your feels.
> You had a disagreement with your partner or your kid. And you feel terrible (guilty, pissed off, frustrated, hopeless).
> A Solar Plexus emotional wave got activated and you have no idea what your problem is. It just feels like you don’t want to spray toxic fumes everywhere.
Here’s the thing:
Don’t go sell, post, go live to feel better [to express and discharge emotion, seek validation, be productive].
Don’t *not* sell, post or go live because you don’t feel good.
INSTEAD: Get really good at getting connected when emotion is there instead of trying to find your way around it.
The 5D version of Disconnected is Clarity.
The 5D Frequency of Clarity can be seen in a multitude of ways…
But for this post, can you see the frequency of clarity show up as in: the clarity of your presence, your energy, your creation that comes from being connected to yourself and emotion?