My emotional wave in HD has been one of my biggest stumbling blocks
I’m specifically saying “for me” because this wisdom might apply to you…or not… I’m not here to teach you about yours, I’m here to help you discover yours
Let’s look at this in real life:
The other day my love’s uncle said “you guys come from such different places. How can she really love you?”
And, yes, if you just look from a 3D, logical, conventional perspective, that’s a fair question.
I remember one of the first times I ever really talked to my love…
There were so many things that my logical mind said: “never gonna work”
My energy knew better. Thank God.
Our relationship is incredibly balanced. But it’s because that balance isn’t logical or 3D, it’s a balance that exists beyond convention, logic or 3D.
Here’s the thing:
>> you want to see unreasonable growth in your business
>> you want to embody the entrepreneurial, innovative spirit that you have
>> you want your business to feel so good because it fits exactly your energy and how you’re here to serve….
You have to let things behind logic be a part of your life and business.
Your emotional wave is right at your fingertips.
I have the 37-40 tribal wave in Human Design.
The question of the “equity” or fairness of an exchange has always been a thing, except I didn’t always see that.
The equity of an exchange can come up around:
>> relationships where you want other people to “do their work” and so you’re not in the position of doing all the emotional labor
>> business where you measure what you pay for what you get or what you offer for what you’re paid.
>> responsibility: if you’re super self responsible, you’ll want others to do the same.
>> of course concrete things like money, household chores, etc
You get it. HERE’S THE THING
The equity of an exchange (for me) isn’t logical.
Focusing on equity from a logical point of view or dealing with it from a conditioning point of view has been a big stumbling block.
Let’s break this down...
The equity of an exchange:
From a logical point of view:
make the exchange make sense, is it a fair exchange money, time, energy wise?
From a conditioning point of view:
things like: it’s safer if I give more than I receive so I’m not indebted or run the risk of seeming selfish
I better boundary the hell out of everything so I don’t over give + resent
Here’s the breakthrough
My energy is the only one that knows what’s equitable.
AND that balance is constantly changing energetically.
My emotional wave is the one that updates it, not my mind.
If I fight my emotional wave or don’t support it, it can’t update.
When I recognize and support it...
The rebalancing happens on my behalf.
I don’t have to:
“heal”
talk through it with other ppl to *make sure* they change then feel pissed if they don’t make the change
put up more boundaries and rules in my business
*remember* the reset
figure out how to do things so I’m in alignment with the new balance my wave created
You might get a breakthrough from my story. I love that for us both.
Here’s what’s actually more important:
Here’s what’s more important:
Your emotional wave also has this kind of wisdom + power: That wisdom + power is perfectly tailored to you and your highest trajectory.
The way to tap into that is getting incredibly intimate with your emotional wave, how it moves in your system.
It has answers no one else can give you...not an HD teacher, not a therapist, not a coach.